What is sexual consent?

In this generation, it can be difficult to know the line where sex becomes consensual or non-consensual. This blog is here to give more information on definitions, laws, campaigns, STI’s and how to get support.

So, sexual consent is an agreement which is made clear between sexual partners to engage in any specific sexual activity.

Those who are under the influence of alcohol or drugs are classed as unable to consent. Without clear and ongoing consent by any partner but still engaging in the activity, the act is non-consensual and is sexual assault. There are no exceptions – even if you have hooked up with the same person before.

 

Is it consensual?

Just because someone has given sexual consent for in the past, this does NOT give automatic consent for repeated or further sexual activity in the future.

Communication is important:

  • Ask if it is okay to change the type or degree of sexual activity
  • An explicit agreement to an activity such as yes!
  • Do not assume that wearing certain clothes, flirting or kissing is an invitation for anything further
  • The individual must be over the age of consent (16 years or over in the UK)
  • The individual must not be highly under the influence of drugs or alcohol
  • You can withdraw from a sexual activity at any time even if you have already given consent, communicate with your partner if you wish to stop or feel uncomfortable. Consent is reversible

Sexual abuse is not always an attack from strangers on the street – it can often be a partner, or someone well known to the victim

Facts

  • Consent is a legal requirement, sexual activity without consent means the law has been broken – read more about this on ‘the law’ section of our blog.
  • Anyone can be a victim of sexual abuse, regardless of gender, age or sexual orientation. However, Women (particularly females of colour), LGBT identified people and those with developmental disabilities are the most likely to be victimised.
  • Ages 12-34 are at the highest risk of rape and sexual assault
  • More than 1 in 3 women and nearly 1 in 4 men have experienced sexual violence involving physical contact in their lifetime.
  • An estimated 80,600 inmates each year experience sexual violence while in prison or jail –most likely by a staff member.
  • The likelihood that a person suffers suicidal or depressive thoughts increases after sexual violence. Sexual violence also affects victims’ relationships with their family, friends, and co-workers. If you have been a victim of sexual assault – please visit the ‘support’ section of our blog to browse the many networks that exist to help you.

 

Any time. Any place. Consent